Adoptive moms can’t get the blues, can they? Actually they can. This book talks about some of the unforseen challanges of adoption and how to deal with them. I have not read this book, but have read articles about this subject, especially just after we got back with Savannah. Those articles were so helpful and necessary in my life at time and helped explain some of the issues to my husband. I’m sure this book would do much more of the same.
Post Adoption Blues?
Adoption Learning Partners—Awesome Training!

http://www.adoptionlearningpartners.org/
This site is so excellent I decided it deserved good long explanation. Last year Mark and I were able to take a course called “Conspicuous Families” training through our agency. It deals with becoming a multi-cultural family (which is what you have become when you adopt a child of a different race).
I highly encourage logging onto this site and taking this free training to anyone who has adopted from China or another country. It is eye-opening as well as enriching. They also offer other courses about a number of adoption topics as well as deciding whether adoption is right for you. This site is very advanced and even offers sound as part of the experience.
Chinese Village Language and Cultural School
I’ve put this into the before adoption category because we were SO happy that we learned a little Chinese before we went to get Savannah in China. This school is located in Grand Rapids, but also offers audio products as well as flipalbums to hear and practice with. Any amount of language you can gain before you go (even if it’s just thank you, hello, and my name is Melissa) is very appreciated by the Chinese people. I (Melissa) am currently in one of their language classes and we will be enrolling Savannah in the preschool class in January.
